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Skincare for Tweens: Your Guide to Clean & Confident Kids

The skincare aisle isn't just for grown-ups anymore. If you’re a parent to a tween or teen, chances are you’ve seen firsthand the explosion of youth-targeted clean skincare. From viral body sprays to bedtime routines packed with serums and creams, skincare is quickly becoming the self-care ritual for Gen Alpha.

In fact, in 2023 alone, tweens and young teens spent nearly $4.7 billion on beauty and skincare—and that number is only going up. But how much is too much? What’s truly safe for their growing bodies? And how do we make sure our kids are building confidence—not clogged pores?

On Episode 323 of the MomShine Podcast, I sat down with Sabrina Yavil, founder of Gryme, a clean personal care brand specifically designed for boys, to discuss raising skincare-smart kids—without the overwhelm or hormonal disruption.

Here’s what I learned—and what every parent should know.

Less Is More: What Kids Really Need for Healthy Skin

As tempting as it is to mirror adult routines, young skin has a natural barrier that doesn’t need layers of heavy creams, retinols, or scented serums. In fact, overloading skin at a young age can lead to early breakouts, barrier damage, or even hormonal imbalances.

Think of skincare like food: You wouldn’t feed your kids McDonald’s every day—so they don’t load up their faces with products designed for adult skin. Save the trendy actives and overnight masks for later in life. At this stage, your kids need:

  • A gentle, hydrating cleanser
  • A non-comedogenic moisturizer
  • Mineral sunscreen (daily, even on cloudy days)
  • Occasional exfoliation with parental guidance (tweens only)

Watch Out for “Greenwashed” Ingredients

Just because a product says “paraben-free” or “natural” doesn’t mean it’s safe. In our conversation, Sabrina reminded us that brands have learned how to label their products to seem clean—while still sneaking in:

  • Synthetic fragrances
  • Hormone-disrupting phthalates
  • Harsh sulfates
  • Dyes and preservatives banned in other countries

Pro Tip: Check which ingredients are listed first. If fragrance is one of the top ingredients, it might be better to pass. Additionally, consider European-produced products, as their skincare regulations are more stringent than those in the U.S. But always read the full ingredient list—and teach your kids how to do the same.

Why Boys Need Better Skincare, Too!

The skincare movement hasn’t traditionally included boys—but Gryme is changing that. Inspired by her own sons and backed by years of experience at Clinique and Bumble & Bumble, Sabrina built a line that’s clean, cool, and confidence-boosting.

Why this matters: It’s challenging to get teens to do the basics, such as showering. Boys often skip steps like applying lotion or conditioner so that a safe 2-in-1 product can be really helpful for an efficient bedtime transition. Giving them products that work—and aren’t secretly toxic—is a small but powerful way to support their mental and physical well-being.

Build Confidence, Not Consumerism

One of my biggest takeaways? Skincare is a teaching tool. Helping our kids discern what they put on their bodies teaches them to think critically about what they’re sold—whether on TikTok, in a store, or by their peers. This isn’t about policing their beauty hauls—it’s about modeling discernment. And that’s a life skill that shines well beyond the bathroom mirror.

Alicia’s Tween Self-care Picks for Summer

At our house, my son is obsessed with Gryme’s body wash and chapstick (especially with two older sisters around!). Here’s what I keep stocked:

  • Gryme Hydrating Body Soap – Clean and gently scented
  • Mineral Sunscreen – Brands like Thinkbaby, Blue Lizard, or Babo Botanicals
  • BuzzPatch or Buggables bracelets for bug-free beach days

Want to try it? Use code MOMSHINE15 at Gryme.co for 15% off your purchase. Your summer toiletry bag just got safer.

Listen, Learn & Share

If this conversation resonated with you, make sure to:

  • Listen to Episode 323: Raising Clean Kids: Skincare 101 & Confidence with Sabrina Yavil
  • Rate and review MomShine on Apple or Spotify
  • Watch the full interview on YouTube
  • Share this post with a fellow mom navigating the beauty aisle minefield!

We’re all figuring this out together—and I hope this helps you breathe a little easier (and spritz a little less) on your next trip to Target.


Swedish Parenting Secrets: 5 Ways to Transform Your Family Life

What if parenting didn’t have to feel like a pressure cooker? What if fewer rules actually created more trust? What if independence came not from pushing—but from letting go?

After sitting down with parenting expert and globally-minded mama Emma Lundwall on the latest episode of MomShine, my entire perspective on parenting cracked wide open. Emma, who has raised her kids in both the U.S. and Sweden, shared how radically different Swedish parenting is—and how it’s working.

Turns out, they’re doing things very differently over there. And maybe, just maybe, we should be paying attention.

Here are five things I've learned about Swedish parenting—and how I’m starting to make some changes in my own life (and you can, too)!

1) Lead with Energy, Not Just Rules: The Swedish Parenting Approach

While this may be more Emma’s personal philosophy than a national Swedish norm, it aligns with the broader cultural emphasis on trust, connection, and dialogue over rigid discipline. In Sweden, kids don’t follow long lists of rules their parents lay out for them and are generally trusted early. Parents instead focus on how their energy impacts their parenting and leverage more communication, connection, and leading by example. That means your tone, presence, and overall vibe have more impact than your screen-time policies.

New habit I’m trying: Checking my own energy before I try to “correct” theirs.

2) Fostering Independence Early: Lessons from Swedish Kids

In both Sweden and Switzerland, fostering independence isn’t just a parenting choice—it’s a cultural expectation. Kids take public transport early (~starting in 1st grade), manage their own time, and are encouraged to explore. It’s all about confidence-building and preparing for real-life challenges. The culture is designed to encourage kids to take healthy risks, manage their time more responsibly, and have a system of support in place for their autonomy. Work schedules are designed around school hours, typically ending the day at 4 pm instead of 5 pm or later.

Shift I’m making: Trusting my kids with more small tasks. Packing their own bags, grabbing groceries with a list, and making their own breakfast.

3) Embrace the Outdoors: The Swedish 'No Bad Weather' Mentality

The Swedish have an expression: There is no bad weather, just bad clothes. Wouldn’t it be nice if schools didn’t close at the first sign of rain or cold? It’s not just about toughing it out—it’s about finding joy in nature, rain or shine. It’s a cultural norm that benefits both working parents and weather-proof kids. Things stay open to help working parents, and better yet, kids learn resilience, coming armed with raincoats, water shoes, and more, so they are prepared.

What I learned? Get them outside, no matter the cost. Stop complaining and grab a jacket instead!

4) Screen Time Wisdom: Swedish Parenting for Digital Natives

Emma doesn’t fight screen time—she approaches it with curiosity and connection. By removing the 'forbidden fruit' vibe, her kids are less obsessed and more aware of how screens impact their moods. 

The goal with screen time? Tune in and entrust kids by coming with curiosity and fostering self-regulation. If you stop making it forbidden, kids stop obsessing over it. Screens are treated like tools—not trophies. And they need to be more empowered to learn boundaries instead of fearing screens instead.

My reframe: Ask why they want the screen before saying no. And notice what it’s telling me about how their day’s going.

5) Collective Parenting: Finding Freedom & Community Support

Emma reminded me that good parenting isn’t about perfection—it’s about presence. And sometimes, presence looks like a neighborhood food truck night where no one has to cook. Over 90% of moms work in Sweden. Why? Because the system is built for families—not against them. That includes real paid leave (480 days per kid, to be exact!), affordable childcare, and a culture of shared responsibility.

How I’m contributing: I hosted a free food truck night in my neighborhood, and it was a huge success! There was no cost other than each family buying what they needed, and our community was able to enjoy and connect. The food trucks were happy, too, on a mellow Monday! Because parents deserve a break—and a meal they didn’t have to make.

Final Thoughts: Swedish Parenting Mantras to Live By

We may not live in Sweden, but we can take inspiration from it. From how we show up with our kids to how we support one another, we can start shifting the system, one family at a time.

Want to hear the whole conversation with Emma?
🎧 Listen to Episode 322: Swedish Parenting—Ditching the Rules of the Old-Fashioned Way
Or catch it on YouTube!

Let me know on Instagram @momshine.co: What’s one Swedish-inspired parenting idea you’re excited to try?

Let’s keep shining,
Alicia


5 Fun Things to Do in Orange County With the Family

As someone who grew up in Orange County and recently visited with my family, I can’t help but share some of my favorite things to do when we’re in town! We stayed in San Clemente — one of my favorite spots — because it’s so easy to get around, hit the beach, and enjoy great food without much fuss. Here’s a peek at our recent OC adventure and some recommendations for planning your own trip!

1. Hit the Beach

San Clemente’s T-Street Beach is our go-to. My husband surfs, and I sneak in a beach run that always fuels my soul. It’s a family-friendly spot, whether you’re riding waves or enjoying the sand. If you're looking for more kid-friendly learner waves, Doheny Beach and Dana Point area has much to offer, including lessons right there on the beach all summer long. I highly recommend Girl in the Curl as a great starting point.

2. Enjoy the Eats in OC

We’re big foodies, so we make sure to hit our favorites:

  • Ichibiri in Dana Point is a fun, interactive dinner where they cook right before you (my kids love it!).
  • Fisherman’s Restaurant on the San Clemente pier for an easy, casual lunch.
  • Nomads — my all-time favorite healthy spot, perfect for a solo or friend catch-up.
  • South of Nick’s — ideal for a much-needed moms’ night out!
  • Harbor House is another hit for brunch if you want to please the whole family with a full meal to start the day.

3. Check the Local OC Hangouts

We joined friends for Friday night football games, which made us feel like locals again, and then we unwound poolside at the Ritz Carlton in Dana Point — a little slice of luxury. Salt Creek is an incredible beach that the whole family will love, complete with pop-up eating right there on the beach.

4. Shop the Best Spots

Local mom hack: Skip the tourist traps and head straight to San Clemente for that perfect blend of laid-back and family fun. Plus, who can resist outlet shopping?

  • Nectarlife (moving from South Coast Plaza to Downtown Disney) — I’m obsessed with their all-natural whipped soaps. Bonus: use MomShine20 for 20% off! (Shop here)
  • Lululemon Outlet at the San Clemente Outlets for great deals.
  • Rainbow Sandals Outlet — a classic for picking up durable, beach-ready sandals.

 5. Mark Your Calendar for Upcoming OC Events

Don’t miss the OC Fair or Wild Rivers Waterpark for summer visitors — both are guaranteed hits for the whole family.

Why We Go Back Every Year

This trip has become an annual tradition for us. Whether it’s surfing, shopping, or simply soaking in the SoCal sun, Orange County always delivers the perfect mix of relaxation and fun.


Top AI Hacks for Busy Moms: 6 Genius Ways to Simplify Life with Tina Sharkey

AI can feel overwhelming, but what if it gave you something you’ve been craving since becoming a mom?

…..Time.

On my MomShine podcast, I sat down with Tina Sharkey—a USC professor, early-stage investor, and lifelong innovator—to discuss how moms can actually use AI to lighten the load and be more present at home.

Spoiler Alert: Tina’s raising two sons, teaching the next generation how to lead with tech, and still managing to take screen breaks—thanks to a few smart AI audio agents.

She’s the former CEO of BabyCenter, a board member at PBS, an early advisor to The Skimm, and a professor of business innovation at USC. She also invests in early-stage companies through Magnify Ventures, focusing on the future of parenting and AI.

But first, consider these eye-opening statistics:

So, where do you start? Here are Tina’s favorite no-degree-required ways to let AI make your life easier:

1. Use AI to Plan Your Week Like a Pro

Think beyond spreadsheets. Tools like ChatGPT can take your kids’ sports, school, and screen-time rules—and help you build a calendar that works for everyone.

AI Mom Hack:
“Help me build a weekly calendar for a 12-year-old, 9-year-old, and toddler with school drop-offs, dinner at 6, and screen-free time from 4–6 p.m.”

2. What’s for Dinner? Let AI Figure It Out

No more staring at the fridge in a panic. Just type in what you’ve got, your time limit, and any dietary needs. AI will turn it into a recipe—and even suggest simple prep tasks for your kids.

AI Mom Hack:
“I have eggs, spinach, rice, and cheese. Create a 30-minute meal all three kids can help with—ages 4, 9, and 12.”

3. Travel & Packing Made Easy

Tina shared how AI helped her pack for a trip to Italy, down to carry-on limits, weather, and family activities. Say goodbye to overpacking and forgotten essentials.

AI Mom Hack:
“We’re going to Tahoe in spring with three kids. Create a packing list and meal plan for a 4-day trip.”

4. Create a Learning Coach (That Doesn’t Yell)

Need homework help? AI can act like a tutor, guiding your kids without giving away answers. You can also ask it to spark meaningful family conversations.

AI Mom Hack:
“Create a discussion guide for ‘To Kill a Mockingbird’ for a 12-year-old, focused on justice and equity.”

5. Go Screen-Free with Audio Agents

Welcome to Generation A or what could be called ‘Generation Audio.’ Tina uses voice assistants like Google Home or Siri to manage her schedule—no screen required. Less swiping, more presence.

AI Mom Hack:
Set up voice commands for calendar reminders, meal prompts, or weather updates—and keep your phone out of reach.

6. Teach Discernment with Deepfakes & Misinformation

AI isn’t all sunshine and meal plans. Tina reminds us that parenting can’t be outsourced. Use AI as a tool to teach kids critical thinking and discernment, especially for anything they see online.

AI Mom Hack:
Play “Truth or Trick?” at dinner. Show viral videos or images and ask your kids to guess what’s real—and why. Or just role-play. If the teacher said they were extending recess through the afternoon and the audio or video looked real, do you think that’s a real video or message? Have they done that previously, or does that raise suspicions?

Final Takeaway:

“Use AI to outsource the planning—so you can focus on the doing.”
Tina Sharkey

You don’t have to be a tech expert. You just have to be curious. AI isn’t here to replace you, but it might just be here to help us shine and be more present in doing the things we love.

Listen to our latest episode for more parenting tips and how to use AI to simplify your life with our latest episode 321, Parent Smarter-Not Harder Using AI To Reclaim Precious Time!

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Grieving a Family Pet: A Working Mom's Guide to Processing Loss with Children

There’s a certain kind of magic in the love of a dog.

Fifteen years ago, we brought Kona home—long before the chaos of kids, career changes, or the many joys and heartbreaks that life would bring. She was our first baby. She lived through the birth of all three of our children (now 12, 9, and 4), and somehow, she adapted with grace and quiet strength as our world evolved around her.

She wasn’t perfect—but she was perfect for us.

In our house, filled with energy, mismatched socks, and never-ending schedules, she was a calming presence. A soft landing. From the moment she greeted us each morning to her final days, she gave her all. Every single day.

And now… she’s gone. And the silence she left behind was louder than I ever expected.

A Dog Who Grew With Us

Kona hit her prime around 7, right around the time most dogs settle into themselves. It was like she matured with us. She took every adventure we threw at her, whether it was a move over the Golden Gate Bridge, a mountain hike, or a late-night snuggle session after another newborn feeding marathon.

She was there when I worked building my career at my first startup and was beloved by all my teammates as our unofficial marketing mascot. She sat with me through operations, miscarriages, the loss of my beloved grandmother, and some of the most vulnerable moments of my life. She celebrated every high and never wavered through any low.

She had a mischievous streak, too, that is worth mentioning: 

  • A stolen pink cupcake that gave her endless diarrhea? Worth it.
  • A full chocolate advent calendar? Down the hatch—and out the other end.
  • A bowl full of spilled popcorn stolen—oopsie.
  • A poop on a Christmas present to mom? Sorry about that one.

And somehow, despite all her snacky adventures, she outlived her breed’s average lifespan by several years with minimal health issues.

A Dog Who Raised Our Kids, Too

Kona was there for all of it. She let my third wrestle her endlessly, unfazed by the toddler body slams she learned to endure from the first two. She let them climb on her, dress her up, and spill their secrets to her on hard days.

She taught them love.
She taught them patience.
She taught them presence.

Grieving Out Loud 

Losing her has left a giant hole in our hearts and our home. We’ve never known a life without her. I counted. Five thousand three hundred days, in fact, we’ve only known a life with Kona in it. But I’m letting my kids grieve out loud. We talk about her. We cry. We laugh at the memories. We light a candle. We pray.

We remembered her in photos, videos, and appreciated the dozens of drop-offs, notes, and little gifts we’ve received from loved ones to work our way through it. And slowly, we’re learning to live with the loss.

How to Talk to Kids About the Loss of a Pet

Every child grieves differently, and depending on their age and development, their understanding of death can vary dramatically. Here’s what helped us and what experts recommend when helping kids cope with losing a beloved pet:

Ages 2–5: Keep it simple and honest.
Young kids often don’t understand the concept of permanence. Use clear, gentle language. Instead of saying, “Kona went to sleep,” which can be confusing or even scary, say, “Kona’s body stopped working, and she died. We won’t see her anymore, but we can always remember her.”

Offer comfort through routine and affection, and expect that they may ask the same questions again and again as they try to process what happened.

Ages 6–9: Encourage questions and allow emotion.
Children in this age group often begin to understand that death is final, but it may still feel confusing. Let them talk, cry, be angry, or even laugh. Encourage expression through drawing, storytelling, or creating a little memory box with their favorite photo or collar.

We let our kids light a candle and share their favorite Kona stories around the dinner table. It helped them feel heard and reminded them that it’s okay to feel big feelings.

Ages 10+: Let them lead the way.
Older kids may understand death more like adults do, but that doesn’t make it easier. They may want more privacy in their grief or feel pressure to stay “strong.” Make sure they know there’s no right way to mourn.

I told my oldest, “You don’t have to hold it together. Grief is love with nowhere to go.” That opened the door for a much-needed cry and some deep conversation that I’ll always remember.

What She Taught Me

In these quiet moments, I keep coming back to one truth: What matters most isn’t perfection—it’s presence.

Kona showed up. Every day.
She didn’t worry about the future. She didn’t dwell on the past.
She loved us completely, even in our mess.
She reminded us to greet each morning joyfully and give love freely. That, in itself, was the most profound kind of wisdom to leave with all of us.

For Anyone Else Grieving a Pet

If you’re grieving the loss of a beloved animal, know that you’re not alone. The pain is real because the love is real. What’s helped me:

  • Letting it out. Cry, talk, share. Grief needs air.
  • Honoring the memories. Light a candle, tell a story, and create a little tribute.
  • Reflecting on the joy. They gave us so much more than we can ever give back.

Kona’s memory lives on in our home, in our hearts, and in every moment we choose presence over perfection. She wasn’t just a dog. She was our first family member. And she taught us how to love bigger, live fuller, and keep going—even after goodbye.

For more stories on parenting, love, and finding light in the mess, check out our new episodes on the MomShine podcast—the #1 show for busy moms working their way through the chaos.


Why Traditional Education Is Failing Our Kids—And What Parents Can Do About It

Education is one of the biggest concerns for parents today—and for good reason. Only 1 in 3 U.S. students are performing at grade level in math and reading, and despite massive spending, our schools rank among the lowest globally.

On this week’s MomShine podcast, I sat down with MacKenzie Price, the founder of 2-Hour Learning, to talk about why traditional education is failing our kids—and how parents can take action.

MacKenzie’s story is fascinating because she didn’t always love learning. In fact, she hated school growing up, even though she knew how to “play the game” and get A’s.

So when she saw her daughters losing their love for learning, she knew something had to change. Instead of trying to fix the broken system, she created an entirely new personalized learning model—one that’s revolutionizing education.

Why the Traditional School Model No Longer Works

Most schools still follow a one-size-fits-all approach, which means:

  • Advanced learners get bored because they aren’t challenged.
  • Struggling students fall behind because the curriculum moves too fast.
  • Kids lose interest because they don’t get to explore their passions.

MacKenzie experienced this firsthand when her daughter became obsessed with the American Revolution. She went to her teacher, hoping to encourage her daughter’s interest, but the response was: "That’s not part of the curriculum, so we can’t spend time on it."

This moment hit her hard. Shouldn’t school be about nurturing curiosity instead of limiting it? That’s when MacKenzie knew it was time for a radical shift in our education model.

The Power of Personalized Learning

In traditional schools, learning isn’t one to one and is time-based, meaning that if a teacher moves on, the kids either keep up or get left behind.

MacKenzie’s model at her Alpha School does the opposite:

  • AI-powered adaptive learning lets kids move at their own pace.
  • There’s no unnecessary busywork—just targeted, effective lessons for each child.
  • Kids finish academics in two hours and spend the rest of the day on real-world skills, group projects, and social-emotional learning.

The results? Her students are consistently outperforming our public schools in the top 1% nationwide.

How AI is Revolutionizing Education (Without Increasing Screen Time)

Many parents worry that AI in education means more screen time, but MacKenzie argues that she’s actually seeing the opposite in her learning model. Instead, she’s seeing:

  • AI eliminates wasted time on unnecessary worksheets and test prep.
  • Personalized lessons so kids stay engaged.
  • Teachers focus on a key part of learning that’s getting missed today—emotional and motivational support instead of just grading and lecturing.

The best part? Her AI can track a child’s progress in real time, so instead of waiting for a test score to tell you they’re struggling, learning gaps get addressed immediately. Imagine if your child’s math app could tell you exactly which concepts they needed help with and adjust lessons accordingly. That’s the real power we can harness from AI in education.

The Future of Schools: What Education Could Look Like in 10 Years?

If AI-powered personalized learning became the norm, education could look radically different. Students would master concepts faster because they learn at their own pace. There would be no “one-size-fits-all” teaching, and schools would instead prioritize real-world skills, like creativity, problem-solving, and collaboration.

Did you know that 60% of college graduates are unprepared for the workforce, with 40% of employers admitting they intentionally avoided hiring Gen-Z college grads? Currently, traditional models are failing to prepare kids for the real world if we keep AI out of the curriculum. Instead, MacKenzie’s 2-Hour Learning model is proving there is another way that gets kids more time for real-world learning, and she’s opening 25 new schools nationwide in the coming year.

What Parents Can Do Today to Support Their Kids’ Education

Unfortunately, many areas across the US are still tied to traditional models, but it’s a big conversation at the moment, and with the current administration that’s advocating for states to take these decisions into their own hands. But there are easy ways, MacKenzie offered, to get started until our education can catch up.

  • Use AI at home and to help with kids’ assignments—Try ChatGPT for homework help or create personalized “choose your own adventure” reading stories. OR simply type in problems so students can get exposed to easy ways to cross-check their own work with you.
  • Leverage good apps that gamify learning for kids—My daughter loves Prodigy, and I just upgraded the subscription so she can build out her animal pet store through crushing her math facts. She also jumped up in her testing scores as a result.
  • Ask teachers and schools for transparency. Find out if your child’s school does MAP testing and request the full report, not just a snippet, which MacKenzie says most parents get instead of the full picture.
  • Advocate for change locally—Visit futureofeducation.net for free toolkits to improve your community's learning options.
  • Explore new education models you can apply at home—Check out 2-Hour Learning for AI-powered homeschooling or in-person school options.

Listen to the Full Interview

This conversation completely changed my perspective on education, and I know it will for you, too. My mom worked in public education for over 47 years, as well. I find it exciting and fascinating because of the potential change that might be ahead. More importantly, I learned how to approach AI with curiosity with my own kids to keep them in the know and thriving at learning.

If you’d like to check out my interview with MacKenzie Price, you can find it on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. You can also watch us talk through these issues live on YouTube

Let’s start demanding better education for our kids. At an overarching level, it hasn’t changed in over 100 years in a way that supports kids' growth and learning for our modern world. We would love to hear your thoughts—do you feel like traditional education is failing our kids? Tag us on Instagram @momshineco to continue this important conversation.


Giada De Laurentiis's Super Italian: Essential Cooking Secrets Revealed

Last week, I had the chance to attend Giada De Laurentiis’s Super Italian book event at Book Passage in Corte Madera. There, she was interviewed by Liz Moody, the #1 wellness podcaster and author of 100 Ways to Change Your Life.

It was an evening filled with insider cooking tips, Italian lifestyle wisdom, and a refreshing perspective on slowing down and embracing La Dolce Vita—because, as Giada says, "Italian life is about savoring, not rushing."

Here’s what I took away from this intimate and inspiring conversation:

Live La Dolce Vita—Slow Down, Savor More

For Giada, living La Dolce Vita isn’t just about food—it’s about intention. Slowing down, taking in your surroundings, and focusing on quality over quantity.

And that philosophy extends to cooking, too. Simplicity is key. Giada swears by high-quality ingredients that don’t need much fuss. Slowing down in the kitchen is also essential. Cooking isn’t just about the end result—it’s about enjoying the process.

Giada’s Game-Changing Cooking Tips

I loved hearing firsthand from Giada about her passion behind writing her 11th book, Super Italian. She says that each book represents a phase in her life and journey. This one in particular comes after a phase of not feeling her best. She suffered from debilitating sinus infections and gut problems. She wanted a book that wasn’t only about how to keep enjoying food but also about how food can support you in feeling your best in the process! Some of what’s included: 

  • Make Bread Crumbs, but Also Make Them Flavor-Packed: Her garlicky anchovy breadcrumbs can elevate any dish—sprinkle them on pasta, salads, or even grilled veggies.
  • The Magic of Sicilian Pesto: There’s a whole section in her book dedicated to condiments because, according to Giada, great food is all about layers of flavor. Her Sicilian pesto is a must-try, and it’s also like eating a mini-salad as Liz put it.
  • The Truth About Pasta: Did you know that true Italian pasta should only have two ingredients? Pastas should only have durum wheat semolina and water. That’s it! Many mass-produced pastas in the U.S. are pushed through plastic molds and filled with gums and additives, which she avoids.

In the Q&A portion of the night, she also covered some of her go-to pasta brands:

  • Giadzy Pasta: Her line of artisan, bronze-die cut pasta that's imported from Italy.
  • Jovial Foods: A solid option sold at Whole Foods, especially for kids.

A food pro tip for her natural glow? Olive oil. Giada consumes about ¼ cup of olive oil a day in her meals. She also closes out a good day with her go-to DIY face scrub. It’s a mix of rice flour + olive oil for that natural, dewy glow.

Behind the Scenes: Giada’s 7 Tips on Food, Travel & Life

The best part of going to a book event with the author is that you get secrets that sometimes aren’t included in the book, but give more context to the choices of what is included. Here are some of my favorite behind the scenes tips from a night with Giada at my local books store.

Tip #1: Take Risks. Before taking a leap in starting her career on The Food Network, which launched her into food star-dom, she thought: What did I have to lose? When she first got into television, she had to take a leap of faith—seeing it as an opportunity to go for it without fear of failure. Her family wasn’t sure it’d even work out, so why should she?

Tip #2: Failures Make You Better. She believes every misstep leads to growth—whether it’s in the kitchen or in life.

Tip #3: Dry Pasta, Not Fresh Pasta, 9 times out of 10. Surprisingly, she chooses dry pasta over fresh most of the time, just like in Italy—except in Bologna, where fresh pasta reigns supreme.

Tip #4: The Best Italian Breakfast—A Cornetto. Forget eggs and bacon—the most authentic way to start your day in Italy? A cappuccino & a “Cornetto” (Italy’s version of a croissant—light, flaky, and slightly sweet!).

Tip #5: Cocktail over Vino. She prefers a straight-up tequila with fresh orange over wine any day. Shocker!

Tip #6: Dream Vacation—On a Boat! Santorini & Escia—because, as she puts it, "There’s nothing better than sleeping on a boat."

Tip #7: She Has One Go-To Italian Restaurant Recommendation. She said most people love Dal Bolognese if you’re ever near the city center in Rome. Kids or no kids in tow—it’s always a hit.

Giada’s Best Cooking Tips (AKA: Why You’ll Want to Buy This Book!)

Most importantly, I learned my “Garlic Rule of the Year” at this event! Not included in the book, but makes you realize how real chefs know the best kept secrets. Her tip? Remove garlic once it turns golden brown in olive oil. Otherwise, it’ll overpower the dish and alter the flavor.

I also can’t wait to try some of her favorite dishes she talked about that are included in her new book:

  • Garlicky Bread Crumbs—to add flavor and texture to any meal (page 47)
  • Layerless Sheet-Pan Lasagna (page 135)
  • Filet Mignon with Gorgonzola and Balsamic (page 174)
  • The Ultimate Easter Dessert? Her Orange Olive Oil Cake (page 257)

I also loved to hear her most ordered dish at her restaurants……Lemon Spaghetti. Every. Single. Time.

Her Final Words of Advice?

In the final Q&A fire round, she shared some tips that really blew my mind.

  1. Cooking on a boat? Use ½ ocean water & ½ filtered water for pasta.
  2. Her go-to meal when her family gets together? Breaded veal with broccoli rabe.
  3. Her favorite spice level? Minimal. She doesn’t love too much heat in food as it takes away from the flavor.
  4. Best pantry staple? Dried fruit—it’s always a great snack for adults and kids.

Final Thoughts

Giada’s event wasn’t just about food—it was about a way of living. A reminder to slow down, savor the moment, and embrace simple pleasures. Her new book isn’t just a cookbook—it’s an invitation to live, cook, and eat like an Italian. And after hearing her talk, I think we could all use a little more La Dolce Vita in our lives.

Want to bring more ease and joy into your everyday life? Grab a cup of coffee (or a cocktail, if you’re channeling Giada) and tune into the latest on the MomShine Podcast—where we dive into real mom talk, slowing it down and simplifying the many conundrums that come up in mom life.


Menopause Masterclass Recap: Solutions, Learnings, and Products That Work

The Menopause Crisis: Why Women Deserve Better Care

Imagine spending a third of your life feeling dismissed, misdiagnosed, and left in the dark about your own body. That’s the reality for millions of women entering menopause. And it’s not just about the hot flashes.

Despite the fact that menopause affects every woman, our healthcare system leaves us to navigate this phase alone, without the guidance or specialized care we desperately need. The underinvestment in menopause research and treatment options is staggering:

  • Less than 1% of healthcare research funding is allocated to menopause. Of the $46 billion NIH budget, only around 10% goes to women’s health, and less than 1% of that funds menopause research.
  • Only 6.8% of OB-GYN residents actively included menopause care in their training curriculum. 
  • Women were rarely included in clinical trials before 1993, and even today, only 33% of participants in many studies are women, despite significant differences in how medications affect us. 

The reality? Women are often left to suffer in silence. And when you consider that Black and Latina women tend to experience more severe menopause symptoms yet receive even less research attention, it’s clear this issue is a crisis.

Meet Menopause Experts Changing the Narrative

To help break the silence, we brought in two powerhouse experts leading the way in menopause care:

  • Dr. Alicia Jackson, founder of EverNow, a telehealth platform that has helped nearly 50,000 women reclaim their vitality.
  • Dr. Suzanne Gilberg-Lenz, author and creator of The Menopause Bootcamp and trusted advisor to women like Drew Barrymore.

Together, they’re revolutionizing the conversation on menopause, highlighting groundbreaking research, and sharing real solutions for women looking to thrive—not just survive—midlife.

Key Learnings from Our Menopause Masterclass 

1. Women Will Spend Over 30 Years in Post-Menopause

The average woman will spend more time in menopause than she did having periods. Yet, most of us know more about our monthly cycle than we do about this crucial phase of life. As I quickly realized when preparing for this episode, the aisles in stores are lined with PMS products, yet there are very few products on the mainstream market dedicated to midlife and menopause health for women.

What You Can Do? Start educating yourself early on symptoms and solutions. Track your hormonal shifts through solid cycle tracking and discuss options with healthcare professionals and telehealth platforms well-versed in menopause care.

2. Later Menopause = Longer Life

A large study of women in their 90s found that those who went through menopause later tended to live longer. While genetics play a role, lifestyle and hormone health contribute significantly. How you eat, move, and manage stress today will impact your experience in menopause and your overall longevity. Research shows that estrogen is protective, and as it declines, it’s crucial to build lifestyle habits that protect all parts of the body, from your head to your gut to your bones and beyond.

What You Can Do? Prioritize lifestyle changes that support longevity, such as nutrition, exercise, and stress management. Start focusing on muscle building and bone density by exercising like plyometrics (i.e., exercises that essentially incorporate bouncing). Consider discussing hormone therapy with a knowledgeable provider.

3. Your OB-GYN May Not Be the Right Person to Help with Menopause

Most doctors aren’t incentivized or trained or don't have time to discuss menopause care at your annual checkup. Many women are left navigating symptoms alone or misdiagnosed with anxiety or depression instead of receiving proper hormonal support. According to Dr. Alicia Jackson, the real risk beyond that is that hormonal support gets blunted as well when taking SSRIs (or anti-depressants) based on new research.

What You Can Do? Seek out a menopause specialist or a telehealth provider like EverNow. Stay up to date on the latest research. Try hormone supplementation before turning to antidepressants if it’s the right choice for you, and advocate for yourself.

4. Women of Color Experience More Severe Symptoms—But Proper Care Levels the Playing Field

One EverNow study of 70,000 women of color found they had twice as many menopausal symptoms as white women. However, when provided with proper hormonal care, their outcomes improved significantly.

What You Can Do? Don’t settle for subpar care—find a provider who listens and looks for telehealth networks with data on women just like you. Take it a step further and share menopause information within your community to ensure all women can have access to resources.

5. Groundbreaking Research Is Changing Menopause Treatment

From Ayurvedic medicine to GLP-1 medications showing a 12% reduction in Alzheimer’s markers, cutting-edge research is offering new hope for menopause care.

Exciting Breakthroughs:

  • Rapamycin is being studied at Columbia University for its potential to prevent ovarian aging. This would potentially improve women’s longevity.
  • GLP-1 medications (commonly used for diabetes and weight management) are now being examined for their role in preventing cognitive decline. The early markers look very promising even for women not overweight since these diseases are insulin resistant.
  • Vaginal estrogen and DHEA treatments (such as prescription Interrosa) are proving effective in addressing multiple symptoms, including mood, libido, and bone health. As a precursor hormone, it’s a safe place to start as it’s able to convert within your body to the hormone it needs.

Menopause Solutions & Products That Work

1. EverNow

A telehealth platform offering personalized menopause care and hormone therapy solutions. Their database also helps build better treatment options based on real women's experiences.

2. Vaginal Estrogen (DHEA)

Starting with vaginal estrogen can help the body naturally convert what it needs, providing overall hormonal support.

3. Body Composition Tracking

Instead of focusing on weight, understanding fat distribution (especially around organs) is key to health in midlife and beyond. The simple math is to estimate body fat using your height and weight measurements, but a step further helps account for muscle mass, bone density, and body composition.

4. Ayurveda & Functional Medicine

Holistic approaches like Ayurvedic medicine take into account diet, lifestyle, and hormone balance for menopause support. This ancient Indian medical system transformed Dr. Suzanne Gilberg-Lenz’s practice to apply a more holistic approach to patients’ physical and mental health.

5. Finding the Right Healthcare Advocate

SSRI antidepressants can interfere with hormone therapy. If you’re struggling with mood changes, starting with hormone therapy first might be more effective before adding other medications. EverNow can help you find other women like you to see which treatment is working and how it might apply to your own well-being during this stage of life. A good indicator is also how you adapted through your pregnancies.

Bottom Line: Women Deserve Better Care When it Comes to Menopause 

I had no idea how little women’s bodies have been studied until this episode. It’s why many of us feel we are learning as we go through this stage of life, but as women get louder and more vocal in terms of care, it’s important you also know you aren’t alone.

To summarize, in our menopause masterclass episode, we learned:

  1. The power of tracking our symptoms and knowing our bodies. Looking at pregnancy and PMS symptoms are great starting points.
  2. Finding the right healthcare advocate and scheduling separate visits and resources for care and early symptom management is key.
  3. The revolutionary treatments and options that are available now are only going to get better as we go.

Since tissues get dryer as we age, leveraging silicone-based lubricants like Uberlube during intercourse and an over-the-counter hyaluronic acid called Revaree in between can help, as well as regularly checking the tissues in the vulvar area to ensure you notice any changes early. Maybe skip on the vaginal steaming, though. Just starting with these basics can make a world of difference.

Most importantly, we learned that women deserve better—and together, we can demand it and break the silence. Your health journey is unique, but you’re not alone. 

Stay curious, stay vocal, and never settle for dismissive care.

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5 Signs of Progress for Women to Celebrate This International Women’s Day

International Women’s Day is a time to reflect on how far we’ve come and the steps we’re still taking toward gender equality. This year, we’re celebrating real, measurable progress that is changing the game for women across industries, health, and business. While there’s still work to do, these five signs of progress are worth recognizing and championing.

1. More Women in Leadership

For the first time in history, over 10% of Fortune 500 companies are led by women. While this is still a fraction of what we hope to see, it’s a milestone worth celebrating. Beyond the corporate world, women are stepping into leadership roles in politics, tech, and finance at increasing rates, breaking long-standing barriers and reshaping industries.

Progress in Action: More companies are investing in mentorship programs, board diversity, and executive training to continue this momentum.

2. Closing the Care Gap

Women have long been disproportionately responsible for unpaid caregiving, but policies are finally starting to reflect the value of caregiving roles. More companies are offering paid parental leave, flexible work policies, and caregiving benefits.

Progress in Action: Governments and businesses are investing in subsidized childcare, paid family leave, and policies that support working parents.

3. More Women-Owned Businesses & Investments

Women are starting businesses at record rates, and more funding is finally flowing into female-led ventures. Programs like @hellosunshine, @heymamainbiz, and @IFundWomen are connecting women with funding, mentorship, and scaling opportunities.

Progress in Action: Female entrepreneurs are not only launching businesses but also gaining more access to venture capital and government grants.

4. Shifting Cultural Norms Around Motherhood & Work-Life Balance

The traditional “supermom” expectation is evolving, with more women redefining balance on their own terms. The rise of hybrid work, flexible schedules, and more conversations about burnout are helping shift the narrative around what it means to be a working mom.

Progress in Action: More companies are embracing family-first policies, paid mental health days, and better work-life integration strategies.

5. A Focus on Women’s Health & Reproductive Rights

For too long, issues like endometriosis, menopause, and maternal health were underfunded and overlooked. We’re seeing increased research, funding, and policy changes to better support women’s unique health needs.

Progress in Action: More companies are introducing menopause benefits, paid family leave, and fertility treatments as part of their employee healthcare packages.

Let’s Keep the Momentum Going!

While we celebrate these wins, the fight for equality isn’t over. Every conversation, investment, and policy shift matters. This International Women’s Day, share your favorite win or how you’re celebrating by tagging @momshineco! Let’s continue to uplift and empower each other.


How to Talk to Kids About World Events: A Parent's Guide

I grew up watching the Today Show with my parents in the morning. Now, I’m scared to turn on the news with my kids in the room. Horrific scenes can pop up before you know it, and even during sports, ads for violent movies and video games seem endless.

At the Grammys, I watched my kids tear up as they saw LA families evacuating their prized possessions during the fires—raising money for those in need. It’s hard not to wonder how this affects their own fears, especially when active shooter drills have become the norm at school.

According to Nemours KidsHealth, “The average American child will see 200,000 violent acts on TV by age 18. Many of these are done by the 'good guys,' whom kids are taught to admire.” This can blur the lines between right and wrong. As I raise a boy, I see the impact of his TV-watching almost instantly in his behavior.

So, I wanted to research ways to help kids process world events and the media’s bias toward conflict. My hope? To lay the groundwork for thoughtful conversations and healthy media habits as they grow.

Understanding How Children Process World Events

Children's comprehension of world events varies by age, and their reactions can differ accordingly. Recognizing these developmental stages can help tailor discussions to their needs.

Age Group How they Process World Events
Ages 2-5 Young children may not grasp the full context but can sense emotions and changes in routine. They might exhibit signs of anxiety, such as clinginess or changes in sleep patterns.
Ages 6-11 At this stage, children are more aware of events and may have questions. They might display worry through repetitive questioning or seeking reassurance.
Ages 12+ Pre-teens and teenagers can understand complex issues and may feel overwhelmed by the information. They might show signs of stress, such as irritability or withdrawal.

My Personal Experience

After a recent surgery, my 3.5-year-old son started acting out more. His routine changed, and one parent was “down for the count.” He may have been worried but didn’t have the words to express it.

For my older kids, I look at physical symptoms (headaches, stomachaches) and emotional shifts (withdrawal or increased sensitivity). Answering their questions thoughtfully is key.

Before You Start: Parent Prep Guide

Before diving into these conversations, it’s important to check in on yourself first.

  • Manage Your Own Anxiety: Kids pick up on our emotions—including political viewpoints. Mine can tell you who each parent voted for just from listening at home!
  • Choose a Safe Environment: The calmer we are, the safer our kids feel. Approaching conversations with curiosity instead of fear makes a difference.
  • Gather Age-Appropriate Resources: Picture books work well for younger kids, while older kids benefit from well-vetted articles.
  • Find the Right Time: My “power hour” is after dinner and playtime—a calm moment when they’re most receptive. Pausing a game or show also works well.

And when in doubt? Turn off the news if it’s trending too negative—it helps everyone’s mood.

Age-Appropriate Conversation Starters

Reaching your kid on their level is key, so they can understand and process the information. Here are some basic guidelines that could be helpful.

Ages 2-5

  • Keep It Simple: For young kids, using straightforward language can help. “There was a big fire, but many helpers are working to keep everyone safe.”
  • Use Picture Books: Trinka and Sam: The Big Fire (available as free PDF and on YouTube).
  • Highlight the Helpers: Police officers, firefighters, doctors—those are the real superheroes!

Ages 6-11

  • Ask What They’ve Heard: “What do you know about the fires?”
  • Address Misconceptions: Kids often fill in the blanks with their own fears—gently correct misinformation.
  • Use Maps & Visuals: Showing where events happen provides context.

Ages 12+

  • Encourage Critical Thinking: “Why do you think this happened? What could help?”
  • Discuss Media Literacy: Explain how algorithms work—why YouTube & TikTok may not always be reliable news sources.
  • Explore Solutions Together: “What could we do to help?” This builds empathy and action.

Expert-Backed Strategies for Difficult Conversations

One of the best parenting tools? Time.

Dr. Daniel Amen frequently shares on social media that spending just 15-20 minutes of undistracted time with your child (letting them lead the conversation) is one of the best things a parent can do.

The reality? Many parents only spend about 7 minutes of 1:1 time per week with each child. That dedicated time reduces jealousy, anxiety, and behavior issues significantly.

  • Active Listening: Repeat what they say to show understanding.
  • Validate Their Feelings: “It’s okay to feel scared. A lot of people do during big events.”
  • Balance Honesty with Hope: Share facts without fueling fear.
  • Know When to Get Help: If anxiety interferes with daily life, professional support can be a game-changer.

Actionable Ways to Help Kids Feel Empowered

Feeling helpless is one of the biggest sources of anxiety. Giving kids a sense of action helps. 

For younger kids, this could be dropping off thank you cards at your local fire station, or for older kids, participating in community events is a great way to get involved and feel empowered. 

Family projects make a big difference, too. Help clean up the beach events, and look for organizations where you can help with packages for those displaced by natural disasters. Planting trees together and engaging in community events while you travel can also make a big difference.

Managing Media Exposure

Controlling the flow of information helps prevent overwhelm.

  • Screen Time Guidelines: Set limits on news consumption and ensure age-appropriate content.
  • Choosing News Sources: Opt for child-friendly news outlets that present information calmly and factually.
  • Social Media Considerations: Monitor older children's social media use and discuss the potential for misinformation.

Our family-friendly tech contract can significantly help any family new to maneuvering these conversations.

Creating Ongoing Dialogue

Maintaining open lines of communication fosters trust and resilience.

  • Regular Check-Ins: Schedule routine discussions to address any new concerns or questions.
  • Family Meetings: Create a safe space where each family member can share their thoughts and feelings.
  • Teach Resilience: Help kids focus on solutions, not fear.

Additional Resources:

By approaching these conversations with care and understanding, we can help our children navigate the world's complexities with confidence and resilience.

Final Thought: We can’t shield our kids from everything, but we can help them process, understand, and feel empowered.